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screwup

BDSM for trannies & queers
every second Friday
new location this month

The BDSM space for trans, genderfucks,
 intersex, 
gender deviants, queers, genderqueers
and their play pals.


March screwup

screwup: BDSM for trannies, genderqueers and their friends, presents...

Age Play and Family relations!

Friday, March 3, 2005 from 7:00 to 9:30 PM
New College of California in San Francisco, Room #11A, 777 Valencia Street (near 18th Street), San Francisco

Have you ever done age play? What does it look like to you? What are your favorite ages to be? How do you interact with an adult who ’s five, twelve, ,fifteen years old? What kinds of activities do and don ’t you engage in when you ’re doing age play?

How do you feel when someone calls you Mommy, Daddy, boy, girl, kid, or some combination thereof? What do those terms mean to you? What, if anything, changes in you when you ’re being a girl, boy, Daddy, or Mommy? Where does the power lie in family-relation play/relationships? Does it always?

Do age play and family-relation play necessarily overlap? When do they not? What are the similarities and differences in role playing and entering into a relationship defined by these roles? A contract? Why choose family structure as a basis? What about Master/slave relationships? Where do they fit into this discussion?

What happens to the notions of biological and chosen families in the context of queer and/or kinky S/m families?

Want to talk about these or any other ideas related to age play or S/m-family relations? Or just want to gush about your boy, Mommy, girl, Daddy for a while? Come to this month ’s screwup for a facilitated discussion of the variety inherent in age play and S/m-family relationships.


screwup is for trannies, queers, and our friends. This event is open to all genders and will be held in Room #11A at the New College of California (please note the new location for screwup this month!). Folks sometimes go out for coffee or food afterwards, so come prepared...

$0-5 donation will be accepted to cover the cost of supplies and flyers. The New College of California is wheelchair accessible and has gender-neutral bathrooms!

Spread the word by downloading, printing, and distributing flyers: 1, 2

Please contact screwup@screwup.info if you'd like us to arrange for an ASL interpreter, to get involved, make suggestions or with any other requests.


Directions to the New College of California

The MUNI BUS LINES 14, 22, 26, 33, and 49 all run within a few blocks of the New College of California many run within 1 block. Also, BART runs within 3 blocks (exit at 16th and Mission Streets in SF).

Please use public transportation - parking near the New College of California is not easy.

If you do drive, please be considerate of the New College of California' neighbors and do not block driveways or park in blue or white zones.


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screwup is organized by anyone and everyone that's into queer & trans BDSM. If you want to get involved, sign up for the screwup mailing list and introduce yourself! Or just talk to someone at the Friday meeting.


Past screwups

April 2003 - BDSM 101
May 2003 - Sex work discussion
July 2003 - BDSM & the trans body
August 2003 - DYI flogger workshop
September 2003 - ?
October 2003 - Creating a truly inclusive queer play party
November 2003 - Branding workshop
December 2003 - Skill share
February 2004 - Service discussion
March 2004 - Mummification and sensory deprivation
April  2004 - Bootblacking 101
May 2004 - BDSM on a budget
June 2004 - Hands and feet workshop
July 2004 - Puppy play 101
August 2004 - Aggressive bottoms and service tops
September 2004 - Anal fun and fisting for everyone
October 2004
- Not trans enough
November 2004 - Cutting
December 2004 - Skill share
January 2005 - Pumping
February 2005 - Field trip
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